<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Gemma Ridge Psychotherapy and EMDR]]></title><description><![CDATA[My Site]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 21:53:15 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.gemmaridge.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[What to expect in your first EMDR therapy session]]></title><description><![CDATA[Starting EMDR therapy can feel a little uncertain, and that’s completely normal. Many people are curious, nervous, or unsure about how it works, especially if you’ve never tried it before. When I first trained in EMDR over seven years ago, I felt the same way: sceptical, curious, and intrigued all at once. If you’ve read about EMDR, heard someone talk about it, or even seen a celebrity mention it, you might know it’s often used for trauma, anxiety, or past difficult experiences. But beyond...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/what-to-expect-in-your-first-emdr-therapy-session</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d673230611ac839ce764b3</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 15:27:40 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Pet Bereavement Has Taught Me About Guilt]]></title><description><![CDATA[Over the past three years of working as a pet bereavement therapist, I’ve listened to many stories. Different animals, different families, different circumstances. And yet, without fail, one powerful theme shows up every single time. Guilt. Alongside guilt often sit blame and an overwhelming sense of responsibility. In all my years working with grief, I have never encountered another form of bereavement where these feelings are so intense, so persistent, and so deeply entwined with love. Why...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/what-pet-bereavement-has-taught-me-about-guilt</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c74f18495b6130435015ad</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2026 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When an anniversary looms]]></title><description><![CDATA[September has arrived, and with all that comes with a new month, I am reminded that precisely one month from now, my beloved dog Bruce left this world two years ago. I miss him.  As I start to write more, I can feel a heaviness around my chest begin to rise, and tears start to form in my eyes. It doesn’t last long, but it’s there. This reminds me of how my grief has moved, how it has changed shape, and how I can sit longer in my fuller memories (not just his death), with the emotions and...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/when-an-anniversary-looms</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c7509e5ed83abd8bc040ca</guid><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why I became a Pet Bereavement Counsellor]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have been a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist since 2014, seeing clients with different problems and challenges from trauma to relationship issues, anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. I love my job, especially witnessing those profound moments with my clients. I also love animals, having had dogs for most of my life, as well as other pets. Over the years, I have considered combining my work as a therapist with working with pets, but I wasn’t sure how to make that...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/why-i-became-a-pet-bereavement-counsellor</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c751195ed83abd8bc0417e</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When they say… “It’s just a pet”]]></title><description><![CDATA[I will never forget reading a comment on a Facebook post about six years ago about a person’s experience of losing their pet. Amongst many comments of sympathy, there were the odd responses about  ‘it just being a dog’  and telling the person to  ‘get over it’.   I even saw a comment that said,  ‘it’s not like you lost a member of your family…’  You see, here’s the thing: for many of us, our pets are family, sometimes our only family, or our best family! At the time, I recall feeling both...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/when-they-say-it-s-just-a-pet</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c7517f6b55e67850fc6dea</guid><pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[EMDR and Pet Bereavement]]></title><description><![CDATA[Understanding EMDR Therapy EMDR stands for ‘Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing’ and is a form of psychotherapy originally developed to treat trauma and PTSD. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR helps clients process distressing memories by engaging the brain in bilateral stimulation—usually through guided eye movements, tapping, or auditory tones. This process mimics the natural way our brains process information during REM sleep, helping to “unstick” painful memories so they can be...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/emdr-and-pet-bereavement</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c751e05ed83abd8bc042d5</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The decision to get another dog]]></title><description><![CDATA[Bruce, my Kerry Blue Terrier, was my soul dog. He was born in 2011, and he lived until he was twelve and a half years old. Bruce was not an easy dog; he was a terrier and I, and everyone else knew it! Loving and affectionate to those he knew, not a fan of people or animals he did not know – especially cats, dogs, the window cleaner, the postman…basically everything.  He had attitude and character, and he was a bit of a handful, but he was my dog, and I loved his terrier attitude. When Bruce...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/the-decision-to-get-another-dog</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c75262495b613043501abd</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anticipatory grief]]></title><description><![CDATA[It was a cold day in November, and we were staying at an Airbnb in North Wales. It was our third day, and we had been walking most of the day. As we rested for the evening, I noticed that Bruce, our nine-year-old Kerry Blue Terrier, was unusually tired. He had done a similar walk the day before, and the day before that, but he was used to that. Or so he was before this trip. His tale was curled under his hind legs, and he was more subdued and tired. You may think, ‘ Well, of course he was...]]></description><link>https://www.gemmaridge.com/post/anticipatory-grief</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69c752af5ed83abd8bc04422</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2025 18:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Gemma Ridge</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>